The San Francisco Bay Area has everything to offer the wanderlust hungry, outdoor loving, adventure thirsty traveler. From hiking in the Bay Area to exploring the city of San Francisco, it’s hard to get bored here. For us, every weekend is a chance to explore one of California’s many iconic destinations, from Big Sur to Yosemite National Park.
Within a few hours drive from San Francisco at any time of the year we can find beach, forest, mountains, snow, desert… whatever we feel like! Our favorite way to spend a weekend is to find some random, offbeat place to stay near San Francisco, grab a rental car (cuz we aren’t fancy car owners – the Bay Area is expensive, y’all) and go explore!
If you leave Friday night and come back Sunday night, your weekend will feel like a vacation. It’s our favorite way to satiate my wanderlust between big trips. Below are 10 of our favorite weekend trips from San Francisco!
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Hey, while you’re in the San Francisco Bay Area, why not check out some of our other posts?
- Where to Stay in San Francisco (& Where NOT to): A Local’s Guide
- 12 Off-Beat & Awesome Places to Stay Near San Francisco (on a budget)
- 8 Quintessential Places to Visit on California’s Central Coast
- 8 Marvelous Things to Do in Mendocino, California on a Weekend Getaway
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Gorgeous Morro Bay harbor faces the famous icon of Morro Bay: Morro Rock, a towering volcanic plug that is viewable from everywhere in town.
Morro Bay, California
We might be a little biased, because Jeremy grew up in Morro Bay, but we LOVE visiting this beautiful, quirky little town. From the giant Morro Rock in the center of the harbor, to the resident seals, sea lions and otters, to the picturesque Embarcadero with its fresh seafood restaurants overlooking the ocean, Morro Bay is a quintessential California central coast town and makes a great home base for exploring the surrounding area, such as nearby San Luis Obispo or the wine country of Paso Robles.
By the way, we have a whole guide to exploring California’s Central Coast, which makes an awesome weekend trip from San Francisco!
Where to Eat and Drink in Morro Bay
- Head to Windows on the Water for fine dining and a romantic sunset dinner overlooking the harbor and iconic Morro Rock.
- Taco Temple for enormous portions of incredible Californian style Mexican food, plus unlimited chips and salsa!
- Brown Butter Cookie Company in neighboring Cayucos for sugar cookies made with brown butter and heaven.
What to Do in Morro Bay
- On your way down Highway 1, stop at San Simeon for the elephant seal rookery
- Spend a few hours exploring opulent Hearst Castle as you pass by on Highway 1.
- Explore the cliffside nature walk, scenery, and tidepools in Montana de Oro.
- Rent surfboards and wetsuits from Wavelengths and head to the beach to surf
- Rent kayaks or paddleboards and meet the otters and sea lions in the harbor.
- Visit nearby Paso Robles for wine tasting. It’s one of California’s best wine countries!
- Explore Cayucos, a sleepy, charming Old West American surfing town that’s literally down the beach from Morro Bay! Check out our guide to Cayucos.
- Check out San Luis Obispo, just 15 minutes inland, for nightlife
Looking for more things to do in Morro Bay? We wrote up a whole post about Jeremy’s adorable, quirky hometown! Check it out:
12 Adorable Things to Do in Morro Bay
Looking out into the cold waters of the Pacific hoping to see an otter at Monterey Bay Aquarium, Monterey, California! Monterey is only two hours drive south of San Francisco and makes a great weekend trip from San Francisco.
Monterey, California
Famous for its incredible aquarium – part interactive museum, part animal conservation facility, part research lab – Monterey is all about celebrating sea life and the beautiful California coast. Rendered iconic thanks to John Steinbeck’s novel Cannery Row, today’s Cannery Row area is actually a bit of a tourist trap. But don’t worry: Monterey has loads to offer as a weekend trip from San Francisco, including plentiful outdoor opportunities! Rent kayaks, ride bikes, and go tide-pooling as you explore this coastal paradise.
Where to Eat and Drink in Monterey
- First Awakenings for brunch
- Mundos Cafe for incredible Cuban style sandwiches
- Bistro Moulin for a romantic dinner
What to Do in Monterey
- Visit the Monterey Bay Aquarium. There’s a reason why it’s famous! It’s well worth the crowd.
- After learning about the local kelp forest ecosystem, rent kayaks or standup paddleboards from Monterey Bay Kayaks and get up close and personal with otters, seals, and other Monterey Bay residents.
- Rent or bring a bike and bike the scenic Coastal Trail.
- Explore the tidepools and nature walks in Point Lobos State Natural Reserve.
- Walk around Fisherman’s Wharf to get the boardwalk experience.
The Roaring Camp Railroad in Santa Cruz, California takes you on an open-air train ride through the lush redwoods and straight to the beach and the Santa Cruz Boardwalk!
Santa Cruz, California
Just south of the Bay Area, Santa Cruz is a laid back, quirky hippie town rich with things to do and see. From the beach boardwalk to the lush redwoods dotted with neon yellow banana slugs, Santa Cruz can be a quick day trip from San Francisco, but it also makes a great weekend getaway. We recommend staying in an incredible treehouse cabin built high in the redwoods and made from reclaimed redwoods – read more about this awesome place to stay in Santa Cruz. Here are our highlights and favorite spots in Santa Cruz to visit.
Where to Eat and Drink and Santa Cruz
- Verve Coffee Roasters is a Santa Cruz legend and a must visit for specialty coffee lovers.
- Pono Hawaiin Grill offers delicious fresh Poke, plus live music, hula dancing and a great outdoor patio.
What to Do in Santa Cruz
- Take the Roaring Camp Railroad through the redwoods to the famous Santa Cruz Beach Boardwalk.
- Stroll through the quaint Santa Cruz downtown square.
- Visit the campy but classic Mystery Spot.
- Nature walks and tide-pooling at Natural Bridges State Beach.
Looking for more tips on visiting Santa Cruz? Wayfaring Views has a full Santa Cruz weekend itinerary, Atlas Heart has a fantastic post on visiting Santa Cruz in the winter, and Bridges and Ballons has a great guide to fun things to do in Santa Cruz!
The drive up to Mendocino on Highway One is half the fun of visiting Mendocino! This is our favorite stop along the way: the Point Arena Lighthouse. Be sure to stop for a photo and look closely at the rocks below for napping sea lions!
Mendocino, California
When most people think of towns along the scenic Pacific Coast Highway, they usually think of what’s south of San Francisco. But the northern part of coastal Highway 1 offers just as many classic Californian gems and shouldn’t be forgotten when planning a weekend trip from San Francisco. Mendocino and nearby Fort Bragg are the biggest towns up the Pacific Coast Highway and offer the most reward for those who visit the area. We’ve visited Mendocino multiple times and we’ve got a full blog post up about the best things to do in Mendocino!
Where to Eat and Drink in Mendocino
- If you’re driving up the 1, stop at Queenie’s for an incredible burger.
- Just south of Mendocino, Circa 62 has incredible locally sourced brunch and best of all, a wildlife feeding area just outside the windows of the restaurant! Watch California quails, bunnies, birds, and chipmunks feeding while you eat! Dog-friendly (even has a dog menu).
- Everything looked good at Goodlife Cafe & Bakery in downtown Mendocino but we enjoyed our espresso caramel bread pudding the most.
What to Do in Mendocino
- Take a guided sea cave tour and view wildlife from atop a kayak.
- Catch the sunset at Glass Beach in Fort Bragg – if you get lucky, like we did, there might be a pig on the beach playing in the surf!
- Go hiking at Van Damme State Park.
- Explore the tidepools at MacKerricher State Park.
- Forget Napa – Mendocino is famous for it’s wine tasting!
Looking for more things to do in Mendocino? Check out our travel guide!
The Perfect Weekend Getaway in Mendocino
Jeremy looking out over Big Sur, California at sunset. Grab the Jack Keruac novel of the same name to read as you explore this jaw-dropping, awe-inspiring natural wonderland.
Big Sur, California
Big Sur is not so much a weekend trip destination as a weekend trip experience. And the best part of Big Sur, by far, is the incredible scenery. If you like scenic drives – the kind that make your jaw drop open and give you that rush of “glad to be alive” feelings – you’ll like Big Sur. If you like redwoods, coastal views, cliffs, mountains, waterfalls, beaches, hiking, camping, and all things beautiful and outdoorsy – you’ll love Big Sur. Driving south from San Francisco along the Pacific Coast Highway is half of the fun of this weekend getaway! Just check before you go – parts of Highway 1 were closed due to landslides this year.
Where to Eat and Drink in Big Sur
- Big Sur Bakery: The baked goods in the morning are incredible, but so is the dinner menu!
- Nepenthe: If you can afford the splurge, the food is as good as the view.
What to Do in Big Sur
- See the famous McWay Falls at Julia Pfeiffer State Park (that’s what’s in the feature photo for this post, btw)
- Pick a hike, any hike – they’re all spectacular!
- Camp at Pfeiffer Big Sur State Park (book early).
- Take an iconic photo in front of the Bixby Canyon Bridge. Tip: listen to the Bixby Canyon Bridge song by Deathcab for Cutie as you drive up!
- Check out the human nest at Treebones Resort.
- Spend a quiet hour in the Henry Miller Library – or maybe catch one of their impromptu secret concerts.
Kayaking on the Russian River near Healdsburg. Healdsburg is a perfect weekend trip from the San Francisco Bay Area.
Healdsburg, California
Healdsburg, a little town north of San Francisco, is close to Napa and Sonoma. Like Napa and Sonoma, Healdsbug is home to loads of vineyards and tatsing rooms – the perfect place to spend a day wine tasting delicious local California wine. But unlike Napa and Sonoma, many of the wine tasting rooms in Healdsburg are walking distance from one another, and many of them are complimentary! (Yes, y’all, FREE WINE.) But Healdsburg offers much more than (really inexpensive!) wine tasting. It’s also situated right on the Russian River, which is perfect for swimming, tubing, and kayaking. Healdsburg is the perfect weekend trip from San Francisco if you like a balance of both wine tasting AND outdoorsy exploration!
Where to Eat and Drink in Healdsburg
- Kick off a day of wine tasting in downtown Healdsburg at Thumbprint Cellars, the only place in the world where you can buy delicious Thumbprint Wines!
- Circle the main square and hit all of the wine tasting rooms. Don’t miss Williamson Wines, which does food and wine pairings with all of its tastings.
- Get some homemade pie and ice cream at Noble Folk.
- Grab a fluffy cupcake at Moustache Baked Goods .
- Wash down your cupcake and pie with a cup of coffee from Flying Goat Coffee.
- Visit historic Oakville Grocery on the plaza and pick up some food for a picnic in the square!
What to Do in Healdsburg
- Walking around the quaint downtown square in the middle of Healdsburg is a great way to spend an afternoon, especially if you stop into all of the tasting rooms for wine. Some of them even have complimentary cheese pairings!
- If that wasn’t enough wine for you, there are plenty of other options.
- Spend a few hours kayaking on the Russian River.
- Take a bike tour and visit vineyards while you pedal.
- Visit nearby Guerneville, an adorable little mountain town in the redwoods on the way to the coast. Here are our favorite things to do in Guerneville!
Lake Tahoe in the summer is a whole different place filled with outdoor activities – a nature lovers playground! Photo Credit: “Clear Waters, Lake Tahoe” (CC BY-SA 2.0) by inkknife_2000
Lake Tahoe, California
Most people think of Lake Tahoe as a winter weekend trip destination and associate it with snowboarding and skiing. And while winter in Lake Tahoe is a beautiful time to visit, summer in Lake Tahoe is every bit as magical and fun. It’s one of the best summertime weekend trips from San Francisco. You can visit North or South Lake Tahoe or even explore the Nevada side or the lake! Carson Valley, Nevada is an awesome outdoor adventure town only 20 minutes from South Lake Tahoe – and there are wild horses, y’all. We usually stay near South Lake Tahoe, so here are our favorite things to do in South Lake Tahoe.
Where to Eat and Drink in South Lake Tahoe
- Visit Sprouts Cafe for healthy, filling food and fresh squeezed juices.
- For a much heavier meal, Himmel Haus has incredible German food and a fantastic German and Belgian beer selection.
- Pick up some fresh cobbler a la mode at Aloha Ice Cream and Dessert Spa, and then head across the street for an incredible view of the lake at sunset!
What to Do in South Lake Tahoe during the Summer
- Find a beach and relax all day – we recommend D.L. Bliss State Park or Emerald Bay.
- If you go with a group, pool together and rent a boat.
- Try Stand-Up Paddleboarding or Kayaking.
- Hike the Rubicon Trail for sweeping views of Emerald Bay, or hike to Crag Lake for gorgeous pine and granite cliff vistas leading to an alpine lake.
- Visit Vikingsholm , a totally WTF Viking’s castle on Emerald Bay. (It’s there because of rich people. But still, WTF?)
Everywhere you turn in Yosemite National Park is basically an Apple screensaver. Yosemite is a perfect weekend trip from San Francisco.
Yosemite National Park, California
Yosemite National Park is a must-visit for any San Francisco Bay Area resident. But I’ve found that during summer in Yosemite it can be difficult to find affordable places to sleep that aren’t a 45 minute drive from the park. The campgrounds book up 6 months early and we’ve never managed to snag one!
So, visit Yosemite in the summer if you can, but in my experience a visit to Yosemite in the winter is a great way to beat the crowds and get some good deals on off-season lodging near the park – here’s a post about our favorite place to stay near Yosemite, Rush Creek Lodge.
Plus, Yosemite in the winter is freaking gorgeous and totally isolated, like a Narnia-esque winter wonderland. First you’re driving through sunny California scenery and then bam, all of a sudden: snow and ice everywhere. It’s unreal! Just remember to bring chains for your car (or rent them on the way).
Travel Tip: If you’re planning to visit multiple parks this year, we recommend picking up an America is Beautiful National Parks Pass. The pass is valid at over 2,000 National Parks and 10% of the sale proceeds are donated to the National Park Foundation, helping to keep our parks beautiful! The average cost of admission to a National Park is $35, which means that the pass quickly pays for itself after just a few visits. AND you are supporting the National Park Foundation. Win/win!
One $30 pass to enter the park will cover your whole party for 7 entire days, so you can visit the park as much as you want even when you’re staying outside of Yosemite. You can pick up a pass online at REI or in person at any National Park
Where to Eat and Drink in Yosemite National Park
Look, nobody goes to Yosemite National Park for the food. If you want to eat in the park, the best meal we’ve had is at Ahwanee Hotel, but it’s not exactly budget friendly.
Instead, we recommend venturing out to Mariposa for food. Mariposa is an adorable little Old West Gold Rush town with some great food options. Here are our picks.
- Head to Sugar Pine Cafe for breakfast or brunch. This classic little diner serves up comfort food like fluffy biscuits and sausage gravy, cheese grits, and buttermilk pancakes. Plus, you can get a Root Beer Float or a Malt and pretend it’s the 50’s. It’s perfect for pre-activity fueling (or in our case, pre-snowball-fight and hot-tub fueling).
- After a long day of adventuring, you’ll need some stick-to-your-ribs sustenance. 1850 Restaurant has it on lock. Try the Finney Fries, which are loaded with smokey cheese and steak. Or the Frybread, a Native American classic served up taco style. Or devour a juicy, award winning burger. Or get all of them! You like, EARNED it.
- Thirsty? After dinner, stop by The Alley Lounge to try a few of the 16 rotating craft beers on tap. Yum.
What to Do in Yosemite National Park in the Winter
- Ice Skate in Half Dome Village with incredible views of majestic Half Dome
- Ski, snowboard or go tubing right in the park
- Take a hike! Here are several great hikes that are still accessible during the winter
- If you’re up for it, snoeshowing is an incredible way to see Yosemite National Park
- Take a horse drawn sleigh ride complete with hot chocolate and cider (depending on weather, call for details).
Looking for more tips for visiting Yosemite? Check out our blog post:
Where to Stay in Yosemite National Park
Hey, while you’re exploring near the San Francisco Bay Area, why not check out some of our other posts?
- Where to Stay in San Francisco (& Where NOT to): A Local’s Guide
- Glamping Near San Francisco: A Romantic Weekend Getaway Itinerary
- 24 Mind-Blowing Northern California Hikes (Near San Francisco Bay Area)
- 8 Quintessential Places to Visit on California’s Central Coast
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![[SAN FRANCISCO] The Gold Rush. The Summer of Love. Silicon Valley. San Francisco is a chameleon city: every few decades it changes, morphing into whatever the next Big Thing is and attracting idealists, inventors, and forward-thinkers. It's a city of beauty, joy, art, and innovation.
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The story of San Francisco is written up and down its steep, winding streets. You'll feel the history of San Francisco as you're climbing Coit Tower for sweeping views of Alcatraz and the Bay, or taking Golden Gate Bridge selfies at Baker Beach (just watch out for nude photo-bombers in the background). You'll feel it as you're warming up with a steaming bread bowl full of clam chowder at Fisherman's Wharf, or kickin' it with the hippies in Haight-Ashbury who came in 1969 and never left. Reading beat poetry in Jack Kerouac Alley. Enjoying a sweet, soft coconut bun from a tiny bakery in Chinatown. Admiring the beautiful, powerful street art in the Mission district. Celebrating marriage and gender equality in the Castro. Trying to figure out if that's Mark Zuckerberg or just some other techie dude in a Facebook hoodie in the Financial District (I guess that's not history... yet). Each neighborhood in the city tells its own story.
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San Francisco also has its problems: rampant homelessness. Gentrification. Diminishing diversity. Corporate interests pushing the city forward without enough consideration of its long-term residents. Insane rent prices.
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It is a city that reflects America's extremes: you can feel the divide between the wealthy, zipping around on hoverboards or private cars and ordering everything from dinner to housekeeping on their smartphones; and those who are struggling to make ends meet - or struggling to survive on the streets.
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Although we live in Oakland, we have a lot of love for San Francisco and its complex past & present. You should visit and decide what you think of it yourself! We've got a post about where to stay when you visit, built on Jeremy's decade of experience as a local and a mindful approach to San Francisco's many complexities - link in bio.
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What do you associate with San Francisco? Have you ever been? Drop us a comment below!](http://scontent-sea1-1.cdninstagram.com/vp/8a9baaae44a32f2d3eeab63cfe008980/5DDFA537/t51.2885-15/sh0.08/e35/c0.135.1080.1080a/s640x640/67936545_442033469734625_6728412070039651574_n.jpg?_nc_ht=scontent-sea1-1.cdninstagram.com "[SAN FRANCISCO] The Gold Rush. The Summer of Love. Silicon Valley. San Francisco is a chameleon city: every few decades it changes, morphing into whatever the next Big Thing is and attracting idealists, inventors, and forward-thinkers. It's a city of beauty, joy, art, and innovation.
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The story of San Francisco is written up and down its steep, winding streets. You'll feel the history of San Francisco as you're climbing Coit Tower for sweeping views of Alcatraz and the Bay, or taking Golden Gate Bridge selfies at Baker Beach (just watch out for nude photo-bombers in the background). You'll feel it as you're warming up with a steaming bread bowl full of clam chowder at Fisherman's Wharf, or kickin' it with the hippies in Haight-Ashbury who came in 1969 and never left. Reading beat poetry in Jack Kerouac Alley. Enjoying a sweet, soft coconut bun from a tiny bakery in Chinatown. Admiring the beautiful, powerful street art in the Mission district. Celebrating marriage and gender equality in the Castro. Trying to figure out if that's Mark Zuckerberg or just some other techie dude in a Facebook hoodie in the Financial District (I guess that's not history... yet). Each neighborhood in the city tells its own story.
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San Francisco also has its problems: rampant homelessness. Gentrification. Diminishing diversity. Corporate interests pushing the city forward without enough consideration of its long-term residents. Insane rent prices.
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It is a city that reflects America's extremes: you can feel the divide between the wealthy, zipping around on hoverboards or private cars and ordering everything from dinner to housekeeping on their smartphones; and those who are struggling to make ends meet - or struggling to survive on the streets.
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Although we live in Oakland, we have a lot of love for San Francisco and its complex past & present. You should visit and decide what you think of it yourself! We've got a post about where to stay when you visit, built on Jeremy's decade of experience as a local and a mindful approach to San Francisco's many complexities - link in bio.
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What do you associate with San Francisco? Have you ever been? Drop us a comment below!")
![[BEACH PEOPLE] Some people are born to be on the beach. All year long, they dream about dipping their toes in bright blue water and frolicking on soft white sand, and they return from their beach vacation with sun-kissed skin, positively glowing with beachy bliss.
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I envy those people.
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While they’re happily soaking up the sun, I’m busy being burned to a crisp, accidentally inhaling mouthfuls of sand, swallowing saltwater, freaking out because I saw one single jellyfish, yanking tangles out of my hair, and trying to get sand un-stuck from places that sand should never, ever be.
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I am truly the least graceful person who has ever been on a beach. And it doesn’t help that finding a decent swimsuit as a size 16, almost 6-foot tall Amazonian woman is an exercise in torture and frustration (what is this, a bikini bottom for ANTS?!). Honestly, somehow I find it easier to pack for a trip to the literal Arctic Tundra than a day at the beach.
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Which is why I began my 3 days of beachy bliss in the San Blas Islands off the coast of Panama by complaining. It was hot. It was sticky. There was sand EVERYWHERE. There weren't enough hammocks. There was too much sun. There were crabs (aka giant armored spiders) leaping around doing little crab waltzes or whatever. There was only electricity for an hour or so a day. There was no WiFi at all. I was convinced that this was hell.
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Clearly, it was not hell. But it took me a bit to adjust to being constantly covered in sunscreen and saltwater. By the end of our 3rd day in San Blas, I was in full relaxation mode: I hadn't worn shoes in 3 days, my hair was in goddess-mode, and I'd sent off at least 53 emails via my crappy Panamanian SIM card that said "I'm on an island with no electricity or WiFi, so I'll have to get back to you later." I was officially in Island Mode, and for one glorious, shining moment, I finally understood Beach People. (I will never be able to accept crabs, though. Crabs are horrifying.)
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Are you Beach People or would you prefer to cozy up to the fireplace in a mountain lodge with me?](http://scontent-sea1-1.cdninstagram.com/vp/5d9a4e126269bdfe72039acf23933817/5DE2F442/t51.2885-15/sh0.08/e35/c0.135.1080.1080a/s640x640/65644919_2534245056640344_7143638401448131207_n.jpg?_nc_ht=scontent-sea1-1.cdninstagram.com "[BEACH PEOPLE] Some people are born to be on the beach. All year long, they dream about dipping their toes in bright blue water and frolicking on soft white sand, and they return from their beach vacation with sun-kissed skin, positively glowing with beachy bliss.
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I envy those people.
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While they’re happily soaking up the sun, I’m busy being burned to a crisp, accidentally inhaling mouthfuls of sand, swallowing saltwater, freaking out because I saw one single jellyfish, yanking tangles out of my hair, and trying to get sand un-stuck from places that sand should never, ever be.
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I am truly the least graceful person who has ever been on a beach. And it doesn’t help that finding a decent swimsuit as a size 16, almost 6-foot tall Amazonian woman is an exercise in torture and frustration (what is this, a bikini bottom for ANTS?!). Honestly, somehow I find it easier to pack for a trip to the literal Arctic Tundra than a day at the beach.
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Which is why I began my 3 days of beachy bliss in the San Blas Islands off the coast of Panama by complaining. It was hot. It was sticky. There was sand EVERYWHERE. There weren't enough hammocks. There was too much sun. There were crabs (aka giant armored spiders) leaping around doing little crab waltzes or whatever. There was only electricity for an hour or so a day. There was no WiFi at all. I was convinced that this was hell.
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Clearly, it was not hell. But it took me a bit to adjust to being constantly covered in sunscreen and saltwater. By the end of our 3rd day in San Blas, I was in full relaxation mode: I hadn't worn shoes in 3 days, my hair was in goddess-mode, and I'd sent off at least 53 emails via my crappy Panamanian SIM card that said \"I'm on an island with no electricity or WiFi, so I'll have to get back to you later.\" I was officially in Island Mode, and for one glorious, shining moment, I finally understood Beach People. (I will never be able to accept crabs, though. Crabs are horrifying.)
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Are you Beach People or would you prefer to cozy up to the fireplace in a mountain lodge with me?")
![#ad [Trigger Warning: Eating Disorder] It took me a long time and a lot of hard work to love my body. Before my body and I loved each other, we were at war. I denied my body food. I mutilated my beautiful skin. And I attacked my own mind, verbally abusing myself from within in a torrent of vitriol, hate, and anger.
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In turn, my body rebelled. It ceased all non-vital functions, like growing my hair and nails, or menstruating. It denied me control of my own emotions, debilitating me with unpredictable fits of panic and terror. It focused my mind so intently on food that I had difficulty concentrating on anything else. And when the battle was at its worst, when I had denied my body even a single bite of food for over a week, my body retaliated by shutting down the functions of my heart.
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I was only 16 years old when my heart rate plummeted to 30 beats per minute. A doctor told me to start eating again, or I would die. I was dangerously underweight. But I made the decision to live.
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I don't talk too much about my ED because it makes me so incredibly sad. Because today, my body and I have a beautiful relationship. I worship my body, and it loves me right back. I treat my body with respect and it repays me with strength, endurance, and resilience. Together, we are an incredible team, capable of achieving any challenges or goals we dream up. And it makes me so sad to think back to the time when we weren't.
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But it's important for me to talk about it, openly and publicly, because I know some of y'all out there are struggling too. And I want to let you know that it's OK, I've been there - and it doesn't always have to be this way.
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No matter where you are in your journey to self-love, I want to challenge you to make peace with your body today. If you two are at war, call a truce. If you are reconciling, show yourself a little extra love today. One thing that helped me immensely during my recovery was to look at beautiful, positive images of women whose bodies looked like mine. So today, I'm following body-positive Instagrammers (got any faves?) and browsing @CaciqueIntimates!
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Tell me what you'll be doing to make peace with your body today!
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#FortheLoveofCurves](http://scontent-sea1-1.cdninstagram.com/vp/e447022c2d01bd83a732a7bc2cc5270f/5DE4AEC0/t51.2885-15/sh0.08/e35/c0.134.1080.1080/s640x640/67688744_1118377025017476_7306756110191464725_n.jpg?_nc_ht=scontent-sea1-1.cdninstagram.com "#ad [Trigger Warning: Eating Disorder] It took me a long time and a lot of hard work to love my body. Before my body and I loved each other, we were at war. I denied my body food. I mutilated my beautiful skin. And I attacked my own mind, verbally abusing myself from within in a torrent of vitriol, hate, and anger.
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In turn, my body rebelled. It ceased all non-vital functions, like growing my hair and nails, or menstruating. It denied me control of my own emotions, debilitating me with unpredictable fits of panic and terror. It focused my mind so intently on food that I had difficulty concentrating on anything else. And when the battle was at its worst, when I had denied my body even a single bite of food for over a week, my body retaliated by shutting down the functions of my heart.
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I was only 16 years old when my heart rate plummeted to 30 beats per minute. A doctor told me to start eating again, or I would die. I was dangerously underweight. But I made the decision to live.
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I don't talk too much about my ED because it makes me so incredibly sad. Because today, my body and I have a beautiful relationship. I worship my body, and it loves me right back. I treat my body with respect and it repays me with strength, endurance, and resilience. Together, we are an incredible team, capable of achieving any challenges or goals we dream up. And it makes me so sad to think back to the time when we weren't.
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But it's important for me to talk about it, openly and publicly, because I know some of y'all out there are struggling too. And I want to let you know that it's OK, I've been there - and it doesn't always have to be this way.
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No matter where you are in your journey to self-love, I want to challenge you to make peace with your body today. If you two are at war, call a truce. If you are reconciling, show yourself a little extra love today. One thing that helped me immensely during my recovery was to look at beautiful, positive images of women whose bodies looked like mine. So today, I'm following body-positive Instagrammers (got any faves?) and browsing @CaciqueIntimates!
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Tell me what you'll be doing to make peace with your body today!
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![[FLASHBACK] We landed in Cartagena, Colombia for the first time ever on July 11th, 2016. The day before, we packed up what was left of of our belongings, said a tearful goodbye to our neighborhood cat friend Jasper, and boarded a plane to Cartagena, with no idea what to expect from the next year of travel.
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When we stepped onto the tarmac the Cartagena heat smacked us full on in the face. We were ill prepared for it. We were also ill prepared for the water we couldn't drink, the food we weren't quite sure how to order, the language we were struggling to speak, the culture that felt so unfamiliar to us, and the utter overwhelm of changing everything about our lives and giving up the comforts of a home we'd made for ourselves just to chase a crazy dream I'd been holding onto for a few years.
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We spent that first night in Cartagena cuddled up in one uncomfortable bed in our hostel dorm, crying. (We also tearfully sent an email to our cat friend's owners to ask if we could Skype with Jasper. They did not respond.)
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This trip, our 3rd visit back to Cartagena, felt like a world apart from that first miserable night. We were joined by a group of 16 high school students and 3 of Jeremy's amazing co-educators on our @take_flyte_org trip. We brought the group to dinner at our favorite local restaurant (La Casa de Socorro) and insisted they order our favorite dish (seafood soup). As we explored Cartagena together we pointed out murals on the walls that had changed over the years, new developments being built, restaurants we loved, our favorite picturesque alleys in Getsemani, even the hostel dog we'd played with at that very first hostel so many years ago (he didn't remember us). We greeted Cartagena like an old friend and lovingly introduced her to Jeremy's students.
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3 years ago, we were afraid that we'd ruined our lives by quitting our jobs and giving up perfectly good lives to seek out adventure on a whim. Little did we know that our paths - both personal and professional - would take us back to Cartagena again and again. Cartagena is our lucky city!
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Have you returned to a place years later? How had you & the place you visited changed? Drop us a comment!](http://scontent-sea1-1.cdninstagram.com/vp/8510a401e0dde9bef0f0dc8efd38f7bd/5DE32002/t51.2885-15/sh0.08/e35/c0.135.1080.1080a/s640x640/66217194_2311686425735958_7775172171184034345_n.jpg?_nc_ht=scontent-sea1-1.cdninstagram.com "[FLASHBACK] We landed in Cartagena, Colombia for the first time ever on July 11th, 2016. The day before, we packed up what was left of of our belongings, said a tearful goodbye to our neighborhood cat friend Jasper, and boarded a plane to Cartagena, with no idea what to expect from the next year of travel.
.
When we stepped onto the tarmac the Cartagena heat smacked us full on in the face. We were ill prepared for it. We were also ill prepared for the water we couldn't drink, the food we weren't quite sure how to order, the language we were struggling to speak, the culture that felt so unfamiliar to us, and the utter overwhelm of changing everything about our lives and giving up the comforts of a home we'd made for ourselves just to chase a crazy dream I'd been holding onto for a few years.
.
We spent that first night in Cartagena cuddled up in one uncomfortable bed in our hostel dorm, crying. (We also tearfully sent an email to our cat friend's owners to ask if we could Skype with Jasper. They did not respond.)
.
This trip, our 3rd visit back to Cartagena, felt like a world apart from that first miserable night. We were joined by a group of 16 high school students and 3 of Jeremy's amazing co-educators on our @take_flyte_org trip. We brought the group to dinner at our favorite local restaurant (La Casa de Socorro) and insisted they order our favorite dish (seafood soup). As we explored Cartagena together we pointed out murals on the walls that had changed over the years, new developments being built, restaurants we loved, our favorite picturesque alleys in Getsemani, even the hostel dog we'd played with at that very first hostel so many years ago (he didn't remember us). We greeted Cartagena like an old friend and lovingly introduced her to Jeremy's students.
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3 years ago, we were afraid that we'd ruined our lives by quitting our jobs and giving up perfectly good lives to seek out adventure on a whim. Little did we know that our paths - both personal and professional - would take us back to Cartagena again and again. Cartagena is our lucky city!
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Have you returned to a place years later? How had you & the place you visited changed? Drop us a comment!")
Really awesome post!
As a Northern Californian, I give this post my stamp of approval. Tahoe is one of my favorite weekend trip destinations. It’s great for skiing in the winter and the lake is beautiful in the summer!
Thanks for the approval stamp, Annette! <3
That’s what I love about San Francisco, so many awesome things to do nearby from national Parks to gorgeous beachy towns and lovely cities 😀 But it’s so far for me from the East coast, ha! Great post <3
I love this area of the world! I spent sumers 03, 04 and 05 working in Santa Cruz and it was such a wonderful time. We took our kids back to San Fran and Santa Cruz last August, they loved Natural Bridges and of course the Santa Cruz boardwalk. Im always up for some garlic fries. Sadly on that trip we skipped Morro Bay, Big Sur was closed and didnt make it to Monteray. I have eaten at Nepethe before and would love to return!
Santa Cruz is so lovely! You’ll have to come back and visit the rest of the area 🙂
I love taking trips around California being a born and raised California girl myself. Thanks for giving me some unique ideas.
There are A LOT of wonderful places to go outside of San Francisco. Unfortunately, I have to do a flight to get there and that eats into the weekend getaway. Great itineraries and ideas!
Yasssss!!! I’m living in Monterey for the next year, and most of these places were already on my to-go list before I leave the area. Never thought about Morro Bay, though! Thanks for the tip – it’s now been added to the list! Gotta make the most of weekend Cali travel, yo!
There are sooo many great things to do in California, I am jealous of those who live there!
We did do the drive from San Francisco to Big Sur and loved it. We need to go back and do more of these trips!!
Thanks for sharing 🙂 Pinning this for ideas for a future trip.
What is a good trip mid week, Mendocino or Santa Cruz in late January. Extending out a trade show trip.
Thank you in advance for any tips.
Honestly either of those spots are fantastic in January, that’s the wet season which means some rain but mostly it means that everything will be beautiful and green. Mendocino is much further away from San Francisco than Santa Cruz – like, 4-6 hours versus 1-2 hours. So if time is limited, Santa Cruz is a better bet. It’s got just as many beautiful redwoods as Mendocino, but less wine. And more boardwalks 😉
Way too many advertisements. Makes this interesting site unreadable. Too bad. Looked interesting.
Hey Eric, we do have quite a few ads on our site! That’s because that interesting content takes a heck of a lot of work and time to create – so much work and time, in fact, that it’s my full time job. And since we pay Bay Area rent (so that we can create content about the Bay Area, like this), we need a steady source of income to help make all that time and effort worthwhile. Which is why even though our ads are mildly irritating, we don’t mind them – because they enable us to pay rent, eat food, pour our energy into our passions (me: writing about travel, my husband: teaching in Oakland) and otherwise live our lives. Thanks for understanding!